Saturday, February 13, 2010

My honest scrap :)


Ramit gave this to me.Honestly wasn't my name obvious?What did you think it meant?:P
Anyway i'm supposed to write 10 honest things about me.I'l try.Sorry if i bore you to death.Will try as hard as i can to shorten the post .So here goes :

1.Death.I had never thought I'd be one of those people who would get to see their loved one die.I mean ,when your just 6 or 7,maybe i got the age wrong,i don't remember ,and you've seen it happening in serials its a bit hard to come to terms with the fact that it happens in real life. So i guess one can understand why i sat there smiling when asked my the photographer to sit still.Though the loss was too great,i'm guilty for not feeling that sad and that it hasn't affected me in a major way.

2.I have this empty feeling when i think about the place i'd lived my first 12 years in.It feels like it never happened.NO.Actually it feels like a distant memory.Like i know for a fact i was there,but just dont know how i lived there.Thinking back ,i seemed i can't understand how, without my relatives that i have now,i lived there.That place feels dark and lonely.

3.One of my regrets was hurting my Aunt.Even though i wasn't close to her,she loved me as far as i know.I met her once in a year,n a brat that i was ,i used to visit her only because i could play with her kittens.But the last time i met her,there weren't any.So as usual ,i threw a tantrum forcing my mom to leave without even sitting for a drink. I feel sick for being so stubborn and selfish.Wonder why my mom didn't slap some sense into me right then ....:(I'm so sorry.

4.I was so happy when my mom had agreed to give me what i had wanted.I couldn't  believe it!This was huge , i knew.It was permanently going to change our lives.That's when she dropped the bomb.It wasn't going to be 2 but 3 .I was furious.I didn't want to see reason.But of course she was right.I couldn't take care of her then could i?So though i got what i wanted ,I had to put up with the catch .Should i be asking ,was it fair?I dunno.I guess it was for the best.Better than that lonely place.I got warmth for accepting the deal.SO there was something good in it.Sorry for not elaborating.Guess i'm not being fully honest here .
5.I was easily influenced by what others thought and did.So it didn't take me much time to get a boyfriend.He was sweet and loving.But i was scared.Sure i liked him.But i wasn't ready.Wasn't ready to get into a relationship.It was my first time of course.So i pushed him out.I had a good reason ,or so i told my self.Haven't gone out with anyone since coz i learnt that what i wanted wasn't going to be a waste of time.It was going to be real.And i didn't want it to be uncomfortable.So i knew i wan't ready.I still am not.Not yet.
6.After moving here,I had many ups and downs.My self-esteem took a huge blow.Saw the cruelties girls had to offer.Learnt who my good friends were and who i had to stay away from.Took a lot of time to learn that.But i grew into what i am today.So i guess what happened is ok.Wouldn't like to go back though,not for the world.:)

7.My second year at pre-university college was a blast.I became the assistent class rep.That's when i made my best buddies.I got to shout ,scream ,curse people .Pursue someone i had a huge crush on for the whole year,not considering the fact that he turned out to be a complete jerk.

8.I still can't figure out how to not give a rat's ass to what others think about me.I want to be able to ignore them,prove to them they're wasting time and occasionally give them a piece of my mind.Unfortunately,when it comes to talking ,i forget words .Pathetic :DOh yes i want to slap people when i want to ,kick them and punch them.....Can't i do that?

9.As i've mentioned before,i still have no idesa why my friends stick by me.I feel i pretend.Hopefully one day i'd see myself through their eyes and maybe understand something about friendship and really feel like i deserve them.

10.I don't know what my definition for successful is right now or what's it going to be in years to come.Yes i want to be successful.Maybe jobwise, with a lot of money but only because i earned it .And i should love my job and love working hard for it.So why can't i bring myself to see this as a sure thing in my future?

Is this what was expected from me?Or have i done something wrong?

Anyway i would like some people to be honest and share something with me.Only if you want to.

4)Blunt edges(don't know ur name )
5)Sulagna( hey happy to hear your thoughts)

I pretty much told you about every major event that has happened in my life.N im sorry if i couldn't tell you everything,atleast i told a part of it :D.

Friday, February 12, 2010

Afraid of falling down

Its evening.There's cool breeze outside.It just feel so pleasant.And i like a nutcase am cooped up in my room and online(mom doesn't know...hee hee)

I dont know what this obsession is sit indoors and do absolutely nothing of value.

You know i love these times,when it's quiet ,without anyone bickering,gives you ample time to think .And think about nothing in particular,just about the thousand things u seem to learn and forget everyday only to be reminded some other day.

I trust people easily.I can't do that thing where you seem to be bitching about some one in your head and keep a straight and smiling face at the same time.Sure sometimes its easy.But i've noticed evil entities(according to my definition)can do so with ease and its kind of sickening .Well right now this seems like a vague and not well thought of thought .Just something that was running in my mind due to a small event that happened yesterday.Nothing big.Just was a reminder that i dont know anything .People you think who are nice and well "paap" just turn out to be ,well ,nothing like you thought they could.People you thought you had a clear picture of, even if a bit vague,could turn out to be the exact oppposite of it at the oddest times possible forcing you to wonder why you didn't feel it before.

I've learnt that it really doesn't matter.Though the question continually haunts me.It's just that,is that all?Is that all i can experience when im 18?Is the rest of my life going to be full of THIS ?

I like asking such questions ,but i never seem to get an answer that really satisfies me.Surely life must be more that this.Everyone's ultimate goal in life is contentment.I don't know what i want at this moment.Too confused;a bundle of nerves .There are competions going to be held this semester,and honestly speaking im terrified thinking about something i've never done before.Will i have to have courage to go ahead and try out something i've never done in my life and have no clue whatsoever about where to start.My brother says it's all about learning ,I agree.But im scared shitless.

Do i have the courage to take part and do something completely out of my comfort zone and be glad to make a fool of myself?Honestly,that's what i'm afraid of afterall.Turn out to be completely oppposite to him.Which i am,no doubt about it.

I wanna  learn.Is it too late to learn???Mom says so.

Just afraid of falling down and hurt myself badly.

I hate it when i make excuses.

Luckily i've found the the rightness of trusting my intuitions coz something or the other seems to go wrong if i don't .

Saturday, February 6, 2010

The blog contest

Hey ppl...i just read about this competition -"THE BLOG CONTEST" rather bythe colous magazine.This should be fun.All we have to do is submit our best post in the january month .That's it.No filling forms,no struggling over the details .Now isn't that simple!

So why don't you join in too ?:)

Meeting memorable

And so i'm back!

College didn't start with a bang.....but i guess i knew it wouldn't .Took some time to adjust again and then i just started having a good time.So YAY!

A very good friend of mine came all the way to Nitte to visit his friends from Aloy.Actually I hadn't ecpected him to do so.We had agreed to meet at a common library after many months later, but he had slept off :D.hehe.

Anyway ,on tuesday i get a msg in the lunch break he's here.I run to finish my lunch and meet him.But during that period a wave of nostalgia hits me and i smile.This was the guy who had this thing about girls-he hated them!He considered all of them scary ,manipulating people who loved to waste time i guess.He admitted he didn't like me at first .That had come as a shock considering we were on friendly terms when he revealed it .Plus the fact that i was kinda his assistant in monitoring our class.We had become good friends over time and now we are best buddies.

And now we were going to meet after so many months.I admit i was nervous.But then ,everything turned out fine.I had a good time.I was really glad to meet him and he even bought me a birthday gift.Hadn't expected him to and i was like ,wow,I have really good friends.I'm sorry i just didn't know how to write this in a better way.Don't have an idea.Just wanted to share this with you guys .

And Thanks a lot buddy.You've been there when i was crazy and delusional and irritating and you've always managed to clear my doubts on so many questions i keep throwing at you.Thanks a lot.I really liked the keychain!